Confusing huh? It may seem so but not really, if you take time to listen to the inner person who always seeks any possible ways to make you aware of who you really are, you won't have that confusion.This takes time and most of all yours and not someone else. How does one do this, you may ask and I will try as much as I can in the best way I'll know how to make you understand how you can do this.
1.BE TRUE TO YOURSELF.
You have to be honest with yourself. We all know that there are two people in this entire world you can't lie to,God and Yourself. By this (being true to yourself),you will be true to every thought, decisions, choices, among other things that you, yourself will make. Under this, you will not be influenced by any of the suggestions that you'll get from your family,relatives and friends in regards to whatever you want to do. You will have the entire state of mind to control, because you will have set the standards, that the outside world, in terms of suggestions, ideas among other things, need to meet. Why do you think the tendency of regret in ones life is always rising? This is because, when one is making ideas, suggestions, choices and decisions, he/she does not give him/herself time to analyze, think over, and listen to what others say, and then put all your ideas together and later then come up with the best idea, that you'll have thought about carefully. When you do this and give yourself time to think over things and analyzing them your idea or suggestions ends up being the actual idea to be implemented.
All of these happens when you be true to yourself, in terms of involving your mind, soul, emotions, heart and the whole of you in making these judgements. By this you will have a satisfying answer, first to yourself , secondly to the other party.
2. BE YOURSELF.
Appreciating oneself is another thing that people rarely do. What people don't know is that, our body is not the only thing we have, but we also have other systems in us, that are always working to make sure we work efficiently.Appreciating oneself does not mean to overspent what you have earned, it is indeed different apart from that.
Being oneself also means being YOU mostly and not being under any influences of pressure from anybody. it just means you, having a say on issues and suggestions as your own perspective,not being shy and intimidated on by others. It's speaking you mind out and not being ashamed of what you say or taking it back. Many are times that some of the people especially those who hold most of higher positions maybe in school, at work places,churches or any other place, are the ones who try to do this, during decision making and they rarely give time for others to have their say.
3.FEED YOUR MIND WITH POSITIVE THINGS.
I do believe that this is not the first time you've heard about this. It is true indeed that when you feed your mind with positive things, you will not be bound in making any of your choices. It's said that when your mind is positively fed,probability of doing great things are high. I know some times we often get negative thoughts because of fear but believe me you,fear does not really help in anything.
4.BE A GOOD COMMUNICATOR.
You might wonder why I am saying be a good communicator and yet you might be viewing yourself as a good communicator. By this, I'm trying to emphasize on ones communication skills:
- How do you respond to pressure?
- How do you respond or talk to someone when he/she has made you angry?
- How do you control yourself when you are shouted to in a manner that you don't like?
- How do you control your emotions and mood swings to others?
These are just but a few that i could pick out because I do believe they are the ones that keep on occurring to our daily lives. If you take a good look into how you communicate with others during different times, you might be shocked by to realize that its only because you are may be relatives,friends,workmates among others ,that they are still talking to you. Otherwise you need to be a good communicator by practicing talking on issues that you are really sure of, talking with courage and most of all,thinking before you say anything. If you do this, it will really portray you as a mature person,which you will be, but it will as well show how you really take seriously of what you have said or talked about.
Well it may be said to you,written to you or even sang to you but it will make a difference,influence and later on result to respect,after you have tried to change how you communicate with others through any circumstances they are in or even you, and most of all being you and true to yourself that you will start noticing that you are being treated as a mature person and people will be treating you with honor, not because you are a great speaker or communicator but because you know how to communicate through many channels and you are true to yourself and that you are not easily swayed away from what you have said.
Well it may be said to you,written to you or even sang to you but it will make a difference,influence and later on result to respect,after you have tried to change how you communicate with others through any circumstances they are in or even you, and most of all being you and true to yourself that you will start noticing that you are being treated as a mature person and people will be treating you with honor, not because you are a great speaker or communicator but because you know how to communicate through many channels and you are true to yourself and that you are not easily swayed away from what you have said.
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